Last month Mister and I came thisclose to selling the little house. A friend did a walk through, and loved it. We got thinking about all its drawbacks and how cramped we can feel here sometimes. So we even made a plan B- we talked with a realtor, cheered over the list price she recommended in case our friend didn’t buy, and got fired up.
We started thinking things like:
Who can live in this little house!? It’s smaller than our last apartment.
And it was decided. We would move. We felt very decisive and adult.
And then Mister asked one little question:
But Kyla, wouldn’t you like to start a business? It’s all you talk about. You could start selling on etsy again, you could keep putting time into your blog, you could start doing design work…. if we move that would be really hard. Why don’t we give you a chance to do what you’re in love with?
That kid is just full of good ideas & this summer will bring many good things, including not moving even a little bit and the launch of a new little business in these parts.
I think a pre-emptive: WOO HOO! is in order.
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That is awesome – follow your dream! By the way, I love your kitchen.
Mister is super supportive and that is just heart melting. Good luck and can’t wait to see what’s in store (no pun intended ;) )
I think Mister is pretty awesome for telling you that. I am glad that you are going to pursue some of your dreams and make some things happen for yourselves. I’m sensing a Summer of Kyla on the horizon. I can’t wait to follow along seeing where it all takes you. (Side note: I just swooned over your kitchen.)
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I can’t wait for summer. :)
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The lure of moving can be so strong, huh? It’s like the houses are always better down some other lane. But, usually, we can make do just fine in the home we already call our own.
Can’t wait to see what “little business” is in store this summer!!
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What a supportive guy you have! Good luck, I’m excited to see what you have in store.
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That support from your Mister, wow! That’s a good idea too, if you can’t work on what you want to do if you move, waiting would be good because having your own business would be more rewarding overall. From all the photos your house looks pretty cute too.
It’ll be interesting seeing your progress :)
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Can’t wait to hear and learn more about your plans. And this also means I have time to come visit you in your house which I think is endlessly adorable.
Is it too corny to say I’m proud of you!?
<3.
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How exciting! Good for you for going after what you love. I’m aching to do some very similar things.
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There is no where for the love to escape to in a little house like that. I know. I live in one too.
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That is just the best way to put it! That’s what Mister feels too- I think the wanting to move was one part thinking too far into the future and one part cabin fever =)
WOO HOO! That’s awesome!
That boy really knows what he is talking about.
GOOD LUCK! Can’t wait to hear all about it!
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Yes, yes, yes! Congratulations on staying grounded. It’s so important to keep our eyes on the prize: what really matters to us.
I’m a compulsive mover, a compulsive changer-upper. And I’ve finally learned that all that uprooting was really just distracting me from the Work I Need To Do.
Congratulations on staying put, and on following your heart. :)
p.s. Your house looks GORGEOUS!
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Thank you so much! It’s a tiny little place but I really adore it, and I couldn’t stand the thought of someone else taking over my garden. I planted raspberry bushes last year!!
And I’m like you, I like to keep on the move but taking that energy and putting it into something creative instead sounds like a far better idea to me. Thank goodness it occurred to one of us!
Awww! You’ve got a good one. :)
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Sounds oh so exciting! It really helps when you have a supportive husband! What kind of dog do you have?
We actually have two, they’re called Schipperkes and are now full grown at 18 lbs each. I call them our guard chickens. =)
yes, great decision! but i totally get you about the “very adult and decisive thing”. even though we own a house and have 2 kids…half the time i’m still waiting for someone to have me sign a permission slip from my mom. :)
love the blog, by the way!
I was excited when I saw you sign-up for Indie Business- thought something might be in the works for you. Congrats! :)
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Yes there is! I’m still keeping my cards close to my chest until I’ve registered the business and have incorporated but I’m going to be launching it properly in June. Which should give me some time to catch up with my indie business course, the sheer volume of information is intense!
A) You have an awesome husband.
B) I’m excited for the newness that you talk about!
C) YOUR HOUSE IS ADORABLE. Lord. It might be small but it looks big and bright and pretty and peaceful.
Glad you’re staying!
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You and Mister are too freaking cute for words.
SO excited for you! Sounds like amazing things are in the works!!
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Aww, yay! It can be hard to feel cramped, but you have put work and love into your little house and if it gives the opportunity to pursue other dreams, then go for it! Mister sounds like a wonderfully supportive husband :).
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This is so exciting! I am so happy that you have Mister around, and I have told you time and time again that he is the most supportive person I have ever heard of. Do other people like him EXIST?! If so, please introduce me to a few.
Congrats my love!
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Kyla, this is SOOO exciting! I can’t wait to hear more…
sometimes our SO do have good ideas, I have to say!
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Oooh, how awesome! I think there is plenty of time for moving and getting a nice big house etc etc etc…buuuuut there is only one change to be young and do what you love doing. I think this is an awesome decision. I’ve always loved stories about your little house and how in love with it you’ve seemed…I would be sad to see it go so soon! Hehe. ;) Congrats on the decision! <3
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Woohoo! So many exciting things going on, Ky. I’m giddy for you. :)
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I think this is a splendid idea!! And putting your energy into what you love… Isn’t that what we ALL wish we COULD do? :)
I can’t wait to see what the summer brings you!! xoxo
This sounds like such a fantastic decision for the two of you. Plus, I adore your little house. Good luck moving forward, miss!!
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What an absolutely gorgeous little house – I wouldn’t want to move either :D
What a supportive hubs you have! If those are pictures from your actual house I am sure glad you’re not moving. It’s so adorable! Woo hoo indeed. <3
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Those are definitely pictures from my actual house, it’s all sunlight, odd corners, and worn hard wood floors. I really love it, and when we have access to our deck, porch & yard (and I don’t have a mean case of cabin fever) it really doesn’t feel that tiny =)
Thanks for the encouragement!
As someone who’s about to go through yet another move, I’m so happy for you, getting to stay in the same place for a while. Plus– the opportunity to work on your dream is priceless :)
YAY! That Mister is pretty great, no?
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Wow, way to go, Mister! Isn’t it wonderful having a partner who can remind you of where you want to be and help you stay on track?
You have such a lovely house. I wish I could have a lovely little house. I totally envy you! :) xo
How lovely is your Mister, to remember your dreams and ambitions and put them first.
And with such an adorable little house, how could you ever, EVER want to move?!
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Well it’s about 760 square feet, so between that and not being able to be outdoors from December to April even the most sweet spaces can start to feel too tight. Thankfully my cabin fever has subsided! =)
as someone who has moved quite a few times in short spans of time, moving is not all it’s cracked up to be.
nurturing your passion and keeping your mind (and body) grounded is such a luxury. can’t wait to see what becomes of your creativity!!
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What a wonderful reason to stay put right where you are! Cannot wait to follow this upcoming journey of yours!
You are one lucky lady to be able to be in a position where you really can take the time to follow your dream. And I’m so glad you’re staying. Now we have another summer to go run around in fields and grab ice cream. PS? BANANA BOAT IS ALREADY OPEN :)
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I am very excited to hear about your next venture :)
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What a guy! The support of those who love you make up for any dearth in square footage–I love living in tiny places too. Wouldn’t want the pups to get too lost, you know!
I am SO excited to see what comes out of your summer of growth and discovery!
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You and the Mister totally give me hope. Glad you’ve got some exciting ventures on the horizon. Can’t wait to hear about them! :)
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God bless supportive boys and their ways to always say the right thing when you need it most.
Woohoo! ;)
I’m excited to see what you’re up to. :)
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Oh Miss, what a wonderful place to be when you can have so many dreams! To move, or to not. To grow in one direction, or another. I’m so glad you’ve made a choice that prompts a pre-emptive “WOO HOO!”, I’m totally loving your enthusiasm :) I hope that it all goes well, hey. Yay!
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The space thing is the best part about my apartment. For one person it’s actually pretty huge. I don’t have enough furniture to keep my bedroom from looking totally bare :P
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That is so so sweet. I think that’s what we all do – get bored, want to move just to DO SOMETHING! But there’s so much to be done if you give it time. Congrats on the decision to stay :)
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so very exciting and how very lucky you are to have a mister who would encourage and remind you to pursue your dreams – you’re a lucky gal!
sometimes i feel like we’re in the same boat :) i think i’m going to register my small biz too and just do it. finally. here’s to adventure!
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You found a keeper with that one! I’m really excited for you and can’t wait to hear more!
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Aww! Such a sweet and supportive husband you’ve got there. I’m excited to hear more about this new business!
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How exciting! I can’t wait to hear more about all the goodness going on over there. :)
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aw you two are the perfect team and can’t wait to hear about this new business adventure :)
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I’ll 55th that woohoo!! :)
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You guys are so awesome together. And I love your pictures as always. How do you get that tint on the pictures? I can’t wait to hear more about your new projects!
That’s definitely my photoshop-fu =)
That is so great! I think it’s amazing how supportive he is :)
Your kitchen is so SO cute!!! Is that wallpaper on the front of the cupboards? Anyways it’s adorable :D
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It is! You can see the before and after here if you like, it actually got featured on Design*Sponge! =)
That’s the sweetest thing I’ve ever heard.
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Umm, the husband? Awesome. Yay for new things and shops! Since we’re in “the Biz” together, I think you should give me some inside info, indeed ;)
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Aww, he’s a sweetheart! Also, it’s been said but holycheeseandcrackers, I love the print on your kitchen cupboards.
You two make me so insanely happy. And so does the idea of you having a business and being in love with what you’re doing. Just yes, a million times. So much love, friend.
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geez, i’m at the edge of my seat! can’t wait to hear what you’ll be embarking on this summer. :D
Oh YAY! I am so excited for you!
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That’s awesome Kyla!! It will make such a difference in making things possible (I have a 700sq foot house and I dream of a larger home with real storage and nice floors… but if I had done that when I started dreaming, I’d still be a secretary). You’re mister is so wise and supportive, how wonderful!! :)
XO
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I will temporarily become a “WOOOOO Girl” for you.
THAT’S how awesome this is.
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Your house looks so precious, especially the kitchen! Sometimes small and cozy is nice. And hopefully mice free too unlike mine. :)
I’m glad that you made the decision based on your dreams, especially if now is the best time. You can always move at a later time, so it’s nice with that in mind.
Woohoo!
Your little house is so darling. Even though it’s small (“cozy”) you should try to hold onto it for as long as you can since the market here is so crazy & the prices are going up up up every month.
I can’t wait to see what you have planned! This summer is going to be very good. :)
*hug* you are lovely, and lucky, and well on your way. xo I miss you too darling girl – I will try to hook up with you soon! xo
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I’m intrigued ;) PS Make sure you give your hubby a great big hug for being such a sweet guy :)
You clearly married a great man. :) It’s good to have people remind us of our dreams. I think it’s good to stay put for now. I am sort of in the same situation. I’ve way outgrown my space, but I know now is not the time to try to sell/buy…
.-= Lisa from Lisa’s Yarns´s last blog ..On the Good Things in Life =-.
Good for you!
You know, I get itchy to leave this house ALL the time, but as much as some days it drives me nuts, this little house (and it’s little mortgage payment) it part of what allowed me the time and space to write my book. And I’m really thankful for that.
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How awesome! I’m so excited to hear this news, following your heart is always the best option. I love your house, by the way. It’s so cute and charming–and your kitchen cabinets!!! LOVE.
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Your house may be small, but from the photos it looks SO beautiful and charming!! I love what you’ve done with it to make it YOURS. I can’t wait to live in a house someday and be able to customize it to fit my personality. Appartments are so… bleh. I’m excited for you to be “doing what you love” even if it IS in your cute little house!!! Go for your dreams :)
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your mister sounds like a great supportive guy!
…does he have a brother?…or a like-minded cousin? lol
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*smile*
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Don’t you just love it when husband’s are so incredibly supportive of your goals? It gives us a little reminder of one of the reasons we love them so much. :)
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This post absolutely warmed my heart. Jeepers, could he give me a call and tell me the same thing?! ha ha just kidding. But that is wonderful and I can only imagine the wonderful things you are going to create and do with with your time. I look forward to it.
Best,
Hannah Katy
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I know those were only a few glimpses, but I think you’re house is absolutely adorable! And coming from someone stuck in a little condo (with an overbearing condo association) even a small house sounds REALLY appealing! :)
Ps. CONGRATS. Starting a business is one of the most amazing experiences!
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Yes, yes, yes. Your mister is a smart fellow. Housing will wait, but dreams? They aren’t something to put off.
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Your house is so very lovely… it looks like you’ve just poured your personality and style into it. So sweet.
Sometimes I feel so cramped in our little house too, but every time I think about moving in order to get more space I just can’t take the thought of leaving behind my rose bushes and my tree, and everything else I’ve done to make our house a home. Sometimes staying put is the best. :)
I’m excited for you and your new opportunities!
Um, I’m in love with your kitchen. I want to marry it and have little kitchen babies. Seriously! The knife holder too, but… not marry & have babies. Ouch!
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What an excellent reminder to keep our passions and loves at the forefront. :) Kick ass, girl.
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Oh. Woo-hoo all the way. That’s so lovely. x
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This is such a great post Kyla. I haven’t commented much lately but I just wanted to say that I caught up on all your posts and they make me so happy to read.
Your kitchen is beautiful by the way.
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