The past few weeks, fiancé and I have been having a car debate. At the moment we have two cars – a 2007 Dodge Caliber (my baby!) and a 2004 Pontiac Grand Am that is finished its lease next month. Suddenly talk of buying the car out has been at the forefront of my mind while I try to ignore as the sinking feeling that buying out the second car gives me.
Having two cars has always made some sense for us: I usually work in places that are out of the way and next to impossible to commute to without aid of a car. Add going to school full time to the mix and trying to get to and from work between classes became impossible without a car.
Finishing my undergrad last year was a godsend – aside from being terribly burnt out from a city politics degree (I had four 30+ page papers in my last month of school…still not over that) I was just ready to be finished. I wasn’t able to be engaged by theory anymore, I wasn’t excited to get my books, I wasn’t interested in making friends – I had my head down and was pushing through the last months as quickly as I could. I wanted terribly to just do one thing at a time like my fiancé was doing – just working instead of being sent in one hundred directions at once.
After a number of short and frustrating jobs I got hired in a place downtown that really works for me. It’s flexible, fun, a not for profit…and I’m actually excited to hang out there everyday! And shortly after I got this job, my fiancé – who up until December 2007 was my boyfriend – actually became my fiancé. And we bought a house. And everything started to change just slightly, but also in big ways because suddenly everything was a little more ‘us’ oriented than before, even though we’d been living together for two and a half years.
And then slowly, something about having two cars started to seem a little….ridiculous. We’re very young. We just bought a house that we would like to put work into. I can easily bus to work, and to any of the places I need to get to for appointments. Bussing will cost a fraction of the amount of parking – never mind gas and insurance and repairs if we get rid of one car. But something about even asking ourselves “Do we need two cars?” was hard. Way harder than I thought it would be.
Living in a little city where transit is sometimes unreliable and the winters are very cold will make this more of an adventure than if I lived in a city that had light rail or a subway, but in September when my fiancé hands over his keys to the dealership and I hand over my keys to my fiancé, I know I’ll feel good about the decision…even in the dead of winter.
And even if they strike tomorrow.
I hope.









































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We just decided to add me to the insurance on our single car. My commute to the new job would be a combined four hours on multiple buses every single day.
Isn’t it strange how we get slightly attached to inanimate objects such as cars? I think you’ll be happy in the long run. Think of all of the fun things you can get for the house! OH BOY!
Pittsburgh is toying with the idea of a transit strike too. That will be rough on me… as I don’t have a car of my anymore either.
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Kudos to you for making the decision! It will be hard, but it will be worth it. I wish that I could give up one of the cars, but my town is not public transportation friendly at all. I am hoping that we will find a house close enough to my job that riding my bike to work will become an option, but that could be far easier said than done.
(I had four 30+ page papers in my last month of school…still not over that)
That line made me cringe, good thing it’s all over! Good luck adjusting to one car, I sometimes wish that I didn’t need mine!
If you can work it out- I definitely agree that having one car is the absolute best idea!
Oh this makes me miss having a car. It’s tough to get rid of one when you have unreliable public transportation and winter but it can work.
meep! my parents were in town this weekend and took my car back with them when they left. my bike and i are great friends now.
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